When my daughter nearly
hospital from Anorexia-Bulimia I
Amy at 12.
was absolutely determined to find a
cure for this dreadful disease.
Now a few years later she is completely healthy - physically and
emotionally, and I am very proud of her and myself for what we've achieved.
doctor was surprised by the effectiveness of the treatment I discovered and now she
recommends this treatment to her anorexia- bulimia sufferers.
Getting the right help for anorexia-bulimia isn’t easy
but I found 25 things you should know about it.
Why you may ask? Because most people relapse and suffer
even after repeated treatment programs and hospital
stays but if they understand the reasons why this is
they would not.
Medical literature often characterizes
as “cunning” and“ baffling.” but it doesn’t have to be that way,
so how do
you find the best treatment possible?
You may ask how do I know this? Well I have
been exactly where you are now with my daughter.
My name is Karen Phillips and I am the mother of a
girl (Amy) who suffered from severe Anorexia Bulimia since age 13. Her
battle with this disorder lasted nearly 10 years. Read
our story below.
She nearly died in hospital once but luckily survived. And it was this
episode that became a turning point for both of us. I promised myself I
would do whatever it took to find the right treatment for
Anorexia-Bulimia regardless of the cost, and I did.
I am now offering an individual home treatment program I developed
during the years of battling with Amy's anorexia-bulimia to help as many
people as I can.
But not only that I have the full
support of a medical doctor who was also an anorexia-bulimia sufferer
herself. But more importantly she also cured herself using similar neuroplastictic methods. Between us you now have a full treatment program
Karen and Amy's story.
Well, I guess it was 14 years ago I
started to notice something was not right with Amy. She had
12 when I caught her always looking at herself in the mirror. She would
ask me if I thought she put on weight. I told her of course not, she
always looked just right to me for her age.
You know, I never even thought anything was wrong. I took it as just
being a teenage thing and really thought no more about it. I remember
myself in those teenage years worrying about my looks and going on diets
and silly stuff like that, it was what a lot of my friends did also.
The trigger for Amy's Anorexia-Bulimia was a major disappointment when
she was 13. Amy just loved to perform and she was good at it and she had
a real passion for dancing. She always said that she wanted to be a
dancer when she grew up and if any dancing came on TV she would not miss
it. Even if there was a family outing or a birthday party, if dancing
was on TV she would refuse to go, until the show had ended.
It was the 18 November 1996 that I believe was the trigger for the 10
years of hell we were about to face. Amy had been practicing for months
to get into the school drama group. It was the auditions for the
Christmas extravaganza and Amy wanted so badly to get the lead role.
Two days before the auditions she got ill and by the time her trials
came she was not in good health. She failed to get the lead role; in
fact she was so bad she did not even make the play. When she was leaving
the stage I heard one of the girls who was successful say, I told you
you’re too fat.
Amy just sobbed and sobbed all night in her room there was nothing I
could do, absolutely nothing. I remember saying to my husband John that
she will cry herself out and in a couple of days she would be that
lovable girl we knew: how wrong this statement turned out to be.
I have heard Anorexia described by another sufferer as being like
getting on an escalator that you can’t get off. It just keeps going and
you don’t even know how you got on in the first place, all you know is
the floor has changed. You think you are in control at first but then it
takes control of you and there is nothing you can do about it.
This is basically what happened to Amy, I believe she got on the
escalator the night of the auditions looking for something she could
control, but only found the Devil instead.
After suffering from Anorexia for a long time and regularly attending
counseling, Amy seemed to improve: but the improvement was false as I
realized later. Amy was eating large amounts of food but sneaking away
to the bathroom and making herself sick. She had developed Bulimia.
People like Amy become very good at hiding their disorder and even
though I was aware and on the lookout for any change she completely
fooled me. If you are in this position at the moment be very careful and
take nothing at face value.
It was the Bulimia that nearly cost Amy her life. I had to go away for
a 3 week business trip and during that time Amy was binge eating and
purging up to 15 times a day. Her potassium levels dropped to
dangerously low levels and she collapsed ending up in hospital.
When I saw her in the hospital she looked absolutely terrible, I hardly
recognized her she was so
Amy in hospital
thin and stick like. Her weight was down to 85
pounds and for someone who was 5.6in is unbelievable. I still wonder how
she went down hill so fast it seemed impossible and it is a miracle she
did not die being so thin.
The doctors told us Amy could not have lost much more weight and expect
to live much longer. They told us that what happens when potassium
levels drop below 2 the sufferers heart can simply stop and they die.
That was it for me, I came to the point where I was at my wits end. When
Amy nearly died in hospital that was the turning point I had sworn to
myself that I would not let her die and I nearly had. That was the
catalyst that took me on a quest to find a cure for Amy and with Gods
help I did.
What I did
I spent hundreds of hours studying and
thousands of dollars learning everything I could about Anorexia and
Then I came across a very old
book on Roman psychology that gave me ideas. I then developed these
ideas into the secret that changed Amy's life from misery to
It is well known fact that ancient Roman suffered bulimia a lot
especially during feasts. I read how they looked at bulimia.
Then I thought how could I get
more insight and then how to apply it to Amy's condition. I
gradually developed it to a bigger program, talked to different
people, went to seminars and here we are now with our success and a
unique individual home treatment program that works.
Even a doctor was surprised by my treatment and now uses it to treat
But please do not take my word for it as you have to make up your own
mind, so here are some testimonials I have had from people who have used
Dr Irina Webster MD
Breakthrough in dealing with eating
My name is Irina Webster and I am a medical doctor from
the Eating Disorder Institute.com
I have known Karen for a number of years and I knew the pain she
was suffering trying to deal with Amy.
I have looked very closely at her treatment program and I can
tell you I believe it is an astonishing breakthrough in dealing
We at the institute fully endorse what Karen did as she
used a form of Neuroplasticity it the treatment of her daughter.
Karen will be the first to tell
you she did not know what she did was based on the power of
Neuroplasticity, she just did what felt the correct thing to do.
Neuroplasticity is different to
conventional treatment methods as it directly accesses the
subconscious mind where eating disorders live.
Often people get dependant on
group therapy and feel OK while they are in the group but when
they come home they feel the same old feelings and continue to
starve or binge and purge.
Karen and my treatment gives people the opportunity to feel good and
not starve themselves or binge and purge when they are alone at
home and not be dependant on the group or the therapist all the
With Karen's treatment people have control over their behavior
while no one is watching them when they are on their own - and
this is the most important fact for their recovery.
The other advantage of Karen's treatment over group therapy or
staying in clinics is that people in groups become very close to
each other, they understand each other and support each other.
But if or when they get better - they have to leave and stay on
their own. Lots of sufferers don't want to lose the friendship and
support they had develop so they prefer to stay the same
(because it is a kind of "team spirit").
Also group therapy can become
competitive where the sufferers try to beat each other to see
who is the sickest.
For all these reasons I consider Karen's treatment to be
absolutely marvelous help for people who suffer from
anorexia-bulimia or look after someone with an eating disorder.
Thank you Karen for your courage and determination
Any questions please feel free to contact me at:
Dr Irina Webster.
Dr Irina conducting her eating
disorder seminar in Florida
Irina Webster is an expert on eating disorders and has
appeared on the top rating Sharina show on Radio 2UE in Sydney
Hi my name is Andra and I live in Toronto.
I am writing this to
help you understand how powerful this program is and how it
has changed my life.
You see when I first found this program I was an absolute
mess on the inside although I was cool and calm on the
outside but I was desperate to find help, so I turned to the
Internet when all else failed.
I can't possible express my gratitude in words so I have
made this recording.
Here are some of the key items I found helpful:
The first section of the program talks about commitment -
you need to make that decision that things are so bad and
you need to make them better .
"You get what you expect" or "What you expect is what you
get" so always expect the best and see the best.
Give gratitude for everything you have everyday. Say "thank
you" for this and more great things will come.
When the inner chatter is happening and I'm stressing
out - William's special mantra I learned definitely brings an element of
You have changed my life forever!!!!!!
Your wonderful support is so appreciated, thank you so much
I haven't written to you in a fair while. I just wanted to let
you know I have completely forgotten about my eating disorder!
My husband has been an amazing support system throughout my
recovery! I feel 100% an I am on top of the world! I am a
healthy weight an eat when I am hungry an try to stay as healthy
as I can.
An I am pleased to say I am now
pregnant an expecting our first child me an my husband are
soooooooooooo EXCITED! I am feeling so healthy an in a great
place at the moment! I can't thank you enough for giving me the
tools to defeat this demon that has been haunted me for 7years!
I feel so grateful to be having
this child an will be protecting them in everyway, to tell them
they are beautiful an worthy of a wonderful life! I am due in
Aug this year an I am truly happy now, not be concerned about my
weight an let my body do what its meant to do naturally. I just
had to drop by a personal email to thank you sooooooooooooooo
much I recommend your guidelines to anyone that is struggling
with an eating disorder as it has totally saved my life an put
me back into a happy place! I cannot say it enough times
THANK YOU SO MUCH! My life is so complete now!
XXXXX much love ♥ Stacey K
Thank you Karen!
From a mother to a mother, thank you.
Thank you for what you have done for the
countless number of people you have helped and thank you for
saving my life.
Thank you for your valued help
in regards to an eating disorder we have been dealing with.
Since the situation has been brought under control.
The book "Mom please help" and the supporting resources will
always remain a valuable and ready reference.
Thank you for helping to save my daughter's life.
Dear Karen !
I want you to know that you have truly been a lifesaver for my
I have read book after book, listened to all of the
professionals, and literally beat my head against the wall
wondering how I could save my daughter.
One of my friends found your information on the web and told me
about it. When I read up on it and actually got your book, I
felt like finally I had found someone who really "got it".
So many of the things you had faced during your crisis with your
daughter, I was facing and I felt so alone.
Although she was seeing a nutritionist, psychologist, and a
support group weekly, a month ago, her and I decided that
although they gave her the foundation and knowledge of many
things to learn to fight this, it was not helping her, so we
decided to stop going.
We have implemented all of your suggestions. Her mental attitude
is improving dramatically and her outlook to the future is back
If you ever wonder if your book has helped others, I want you to
know that it has. I have always felt that things happen for a
And perhaps everything you had went through with your daughter
was meant to happen so that you could be there for those of us
who are suffering through the same ordeal with our daughters
Thank you again for helping to save my daughter's life and
giving us the hope of a brighter future for both of us.
Full transcript of her long letter available.
I am getting a tremendous amount
of very valuable information from the articles you send me and I
am sharing them with my niece’s therapist.
I very much appreciate being on your list.
Thank you so much,
I found 25 things about Anorexia and Bulimia you should know
The best way to treat Anorexia - Bulimia is
at home with an individual program. This gives people a chance to
control their behavior by themselves and not be dependent on a
group or a therapist. When we realized this fact, Amy started to
Group therapy gives people a dependency on
being in the group. They feel OK while they are in the group but
loose all sense of self-control when they are at home.
Group therapy provides sufferers with a lot
of friends who are also anorexic or bulimic. They get to
understand each other very well and develop a "team spirit"
attitude. If they get better they need to leave the group and stay
on their own. Often they don't want to leave their friends so they
stay the same.
Being in the group patients get too many
negative ideas from each other. If a young woman has never heard
of drinking ipecac to induce vomiting and learns this technique in
group therapy, she may try the technique out herself, leaving the
group leader or member feeling responsible.
In the group patients often deliberately get
worse or engage in more symptoms just to get extra attention from
each other or the therapist. This kind of competition always
exists in eating disorder groups but on many different levels.
Sometimes it can get out of control and cause a lot of harm to
some members of the group, the most vulnerable ones.
Parents of sufferers often think that the
doctors or the therapist know the best way to help. But the truth
is that parents should be the first and most important
people who can really truly help.
Partners and friends often think that they
will just follow the recommendations of a doctor or what a
counsellor gives them to follow. But the truth is that partners
and friends should actively look and seek information on how
they can help. And also search for what other people have done to
help save their loved ones health and life.
Eating disorder sufferers think that they
always need other people to get better and that without doctors
and therapist they will not improve. The truth is that the best
help you can get is from yourself. If you follow a special
individual program at home you will not need any outside help at
Sufferers of Anorexia think that if
they eat even a little bit more they will become obese and never
be happy again. The truth is that for the anorexic, weight gain,
is gradual and usually one of the last aspects of therapy, because
the fear is so great. By following an individual program at home
an anorexic person can loose this fear in a matter of weeks and
restore normal body weight soon after that.
Sufferers of Bulimia think that they have
control over their bulimia and can stop any time they want. The
truth is that bulimia takes all control over the person's mind and
body. The sufferer becomes imprisoned by her/his own
By following a home individual program you will be
able to control your appetite and food consumption, stop vomiting
after meals and regain control of your feelings and
Some eating disorder sufferers think that
just changing their thoughts from negative to positive would
be enough to cope with their erratic eating behaviour. The truth
is that an eating disorder is not only about a bad eating
behaviour and only thinking positive will not help. It is much
more complex than that and you should follow a special home
treatment program that gives you a step by step plan to
How to cope with stress and not put
yourself into that purging or starving cycle? As a sufferer you
can overcome these feelings easily once you know how. There is
nothing hard about it, you only have to know how to control
stress. The beauty is it is a learned thing and anyone can do it,
you don't have to have any special talents to learn it. I show you
how to do this in the treatment program.
How to correct the sufferers association to
pleasure and pain in their life. As most have lost their insight
into the correct association. Because starving or purging is
painful, but to the sufferer they see it as pleasure. A new
association must be established to replace the old ones.
A lot of people think you can
beat Anorexia- Bulimia by using
willpower, but this is not
true. You have to defeat the little voices in your head that keep
telling you to binge and purge or starve yourself against your own
will. You can only conquer these voices by knowing how to get them
out of the subconscious part of your mind and willpower alone will
not do it. We show you how to beat them.
What topics regarding the sufferers
psychology you should discuss first. This is an important point
and it has to be addressed just right or you could do more damage
than good to the sufferer. I will show you exactly how to do the
right thing, so it will be easier on you.
What is your correct action towards making
changes in your/ their behavior. I learned through trial and error
how to identify the correct actions. I give you the proper actions
to take that will change your behavior.
The program to stop being Anorexic and/or
Bulimic in just weeks/ months, not years. This simple, yet
little-known technique actually forces your mind and body to
function in the way it was designed to function
What should you tell them : which words
should you use and which should be avoided. You have to approach a
sufferer in a certain way or you will get nowhere at all. There is
a secret to doing this and I tell you exactly how to do
How to react and what to say when your loved
one denies the problem. Again this is a very tricky situation. To
be able to help them you first have to get them to admit they have
a problem. You will see how this is done when you get the
How to react and what to say when your loved
one rejects you and wants to be left alone. I know how you feel at
this time, you feel like screaming and yelling at them to wake up
to themselves and stop being stupid. But this would be the worst
thing you could do and I explain why this is and the correct
things to do.
What are the real triggers of binging
-purging cycles? What makes you starve yourself? You will see how
to stop this from happening by following my special home
How to empower yourself to deal with such a
“difficult and sensitive’ situation. This is an important part if
you are helping or dealing with a loved one who has an eating
disorder. You have to be strong even in the face of abuse from the
sufferer, this is very important.
You need to know how the sufferer
arrived where they are today, you simply can not deal with it if
you know nothing about it. But you will have all the correct
information at hand to lighten the load on you. It is also
important for the sufferer to know how they arrived where they are
today. This is important to beating their affliction.
How to recognize the first signs of the
disease and the signs of progression of the disease and how to act
to stop it immediately. You can save yourself and the sufferer
many years of pain and anguish if you can spot things early, you
will see how this is done in the book. So if you have any
suspicions you can stop it in its tracks and save yourself all
How to show love and compassion to the
sufferer and eliminate anger. If you are serious about helping,
you have to understand this point more than any other or you will
be putting the sufferer at great risk and yourself through years
Realizing these 25 things
about Anorexia-Bulimia helped me to put together a home treatment
program and finally cure my daughter's affliction.
Also you will be interested to know the benefits of my
proven method over counseling and other normal medical treatment.
Here is what I can tell about my home treatment program:
100% natural and has no side effects.
does not develop dependency on a group, a
therapist or a doctor
makes the person be independent and feel
confident while on their own
makes the person become adjusted to a normal
makes the person control her/his urges to
starve herself/himself while on their own
makes the person control her/his urges to
binge and purge while on their own
stops uncomfortable and painful feeling in
the abdomen after meals
changes a person's focus from counting
calories and worrying about their weight problem to having a
meaningful and purposeful live full of contribution (this is
what a real anorexic character is about - purpose, goals and
meaning, but it is hidden under the mask of anorexia).
changes a person's focus from hiding food,
binging and purging to developing an unique lovingness and
kindness (this is what bulimics hide under their mask of
binging and purging and they will never realize it until the
mask is gone).
gives a step by step easy system to follow
it is effective 100% of the time if applied
if you a helper, gives you powerful feeling
of helping your loved one or a child
gives you an ability to take matters in your
own hands and have full control over the situation.
you can help with my methods as many people
as you want.
you can teach this method to other people
whose loved ones suffer from Anorexia and/or Bulimia
you will make a strong connection and precious
bond to your loved one, that will last a life time.
you can use this information for lectures at
school or colleges to educate other people about eating
disorders and treatment.
you can organize your own Anorexia / Bulimia
support group and practice this method with a correct focus
on individuality and not fostering group dependency.
I have received many emails and letters from
people who can also tell you about their successes in treating
anorexia-bulimia using my home treatment program. Here are some of
Hi, just a quick note to say thank you. Your emails are always
well meant and very informative. I'm really grateful. Thank you
for all your hard work. I'm sure you're making a massive
difference in many lives.
Thank you so much!
I'm already reading the book and I feel a lot more empowered and
in control of myself, simply because I want to be and I realize
that it is up to me if I do it or not. I would love any articles
or other things that would help. Thanks for everything you do!
Your program helps,
inspires and gives hope to people like us.
Thank you very much for helping us to cope with our daughter
who’s been anorexic and than bulimic for years.
I don’t even know when it all started as she has been very
secretive for a long time.
She wouldn’t tell us exactly what’s happening to her; she was
just fading away and being absolutely withdrawn from us. I was
petrified and thought I was losing her.
Now she is getting well, thanks to your book. I don’t feel like
bragging too much about her progress (because I thought it never
would happen) but she is a different person now.
I recommend your book to anyone whose children or relatives have
an eating disorder problem.
I even think your proven methods would work with people who
overeat as this is also an eating disorder.
Your program helps, inspires and gives hope to people like us.
Thank you very much again, Karen.
God Bless you.
I wanted to give you a little update on my daughter since you
have been such a tremendous help for me- your book is helping us
do wonders for her. during her stay at the hospital we did so
many affirmative exercises to help her get her self worth back
and now that she is out- she has improved miraculously.
What fantastic customer service!
We have found your book incredibly helpful, and it has given
my daughter and I hope in a bleak landscape. Emotionally she
is in a much better state after 3 weeks of the daily
meditation, who am I, and gratitude practice.
She can see so much in store for herself in the future which
I am very grateful for your support.
Dear Karen Thank you.
My niece had developed anorexia. I’m very happy to tell you
she is now recovering From anorexia and is now at a normal
weight, has gone back to school and even Started dancing
People often ask me:
"What does your program really do for treating anorexia and
I can answer that this is a step by step individual home
treatment program: one for adults and one for under 18s (you will get
the two different programs when you buy an electronic copy at the
price of one) they contain everything I did with my daughter Amy to
treat her Anorexia-Bulimia.
As a result of this treatment Amy is a beautiful young women today
with the world at her feet. Her weight is a respectable 130 pounds a
far cry from 85 pounds she had during her anorexia-bulimia years.
She looks nice and very inspiring.
She has had no symptoms of
Anorexia - Bulimia for at least 2 years. Amy now eats 3 regular
meals: breakfast, lunch and dinner. She even eats snacks between
main meals - normally fruits or salted biscuits, but sometimes I see
her munching a chocolate as well.
We are going out to eat and
talk regularly to the restaurant or cafe (at least twice a week).
She eats normal restaurant meal without any fear or uncomfortable
She also does a lot of outings
with her friends with no signs of eating disorder or any other
She is an University student
and she will become a Psychologist next year. She wants to work with
eating disorder people and implement my method on them.
To tell you more about the
treatment I must tell you what my treatment is not:
There are no drugs.
There are no Pills.
There are no special
concoctions to take.
No weird spells or anything
There are no Clinics or
My book is non- religious.
It is not new age, just
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I' am finally starting to feel like I' am
YES I am doing great I' am finally starting to feel like I' am
I cant believe how much of a different person I am...
When I Started to put on a little bit more weight with eating
again I took it in my stride an learnt how to cope!!! Normally I
would freak at half a KG!!
It was like WOW
its so easy why have a been abusing my body for so long!!!!!
I am so so so so so glad I found your book its saving my
Thank you for being so kind.
Thank you for what you are doing.
I had not read far into your book before I was crying - somewhat
happily - someone else has felt and understands this pain, and
there is hope!
From a mother to a mother, thank you. Thank you for what you
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Thank you for the unconditional support. I can't tell you
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I'm fighting day by day to overcome and close this chapter
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has helped me tremendously.
Anyways thanks again, I won't ever thank you enough.
Something seems to be happening, I am not sure what, but my
behaviour seems to be improving some and the daily worries about
food have stopped bothering me as much.
My colleagues even made the comment that I looked happier than I
have in a long time. Headaches are almost gone; too...One other
thing that I have noticed is that I seem to have more endurance
than I had before I started using Mindfulness Training CD’s with
your other help.
My brain power seems to be back to normal again and I can think
clearly without paying too much attention to the bulimic
Thanks for recommending me these CD’s. I feel peaceful and
mindful like never before.
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